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message board message board relationships health entertainment food money chat work support     calendar calendar my events add event     groups groups create a group     local to me local to me     videos view top videos view latest vidoes add a video     help use the boards post messages stay safe online report inappropriate behaviour forum Rules Message Boards / Chat / General Chat / General Discussions Difficult Times Posted By : Andy1961 View Profile | Send Message | Add To Friends Date Posted : 2nd Mar 2010 (21:50) We have been going through a seperation over the past eight months. My wife said she needs her own head space to see what she wants. And no it does not involve another womem however it does involve me being a complete tool for some time. We have a beautiful little boy who we both absolutely adore and this is breaking my heart. Gayle will be moving out soon and both a sense of relief and failure abound. I hope this gives us both a bit of space and time to think. In all this I look at by fabulous son and it reduces me to tears each time. I am supposed to be a rufty tufty firefighter yet this is breaking me. I thought it was the faire sex that were soft. How on earth do you get through this heartbreak and feeling of failure. Any ideas? Reply Posted By : Moneypenny View Profile | Send Message | Add To Friends Date Posted : 9th Mar 2010 (12:11) I married a Kiwi and moved to NZ, where he got on with his life and ignored me. I was lucky to make some really great friends, but the lack of love and support from him didn't help with the distance I felt from my family, UK friends and UK life was highlighted by his behaviour and I came home - alone. Sorry, I don't want to sound pessimistic, I think it's a great step for you to realise what's happening and an even bigger one, making an effort to change. I hope things work out for you both and your son and I agree with the advice others have offered. Good luck << View Earlier Reply View Next Reply >> Replies...   Subject Reply From Date Posted reply to Andy 1961 Tracy 263 9th Mar 2010 (13:50) Hi Andy Moneypenny 9th Mar 2010 (12:11) Hi wordsgirl 9th Mar 2010 (01:59) Hi Andy eeyore 3rd Mar 2010 (19:56) Ms White Andy1961 3rd Mar 2010 (10:25) reply Andy1961 3rd Mar 2010 (10:24) reply Andy1961 3rd Mar 2010 (10:24) i think snow white786 3rd Mar 2010 (10:22) hi LITTLELEGS 3rd Mar 2010 (09:09) Admiting Outlander 3rd Mar 2010 (04:11) reply Andy1961 2nd Mar 2010 (23:27) Hi Andy conrad 2nd Mar 2010 (22:52)

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