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We have been going through a seperation over the past eight
months. My wife said she needs her own head space to see
what she wants. And no it does not involve another womem
however it does involve me being a complete tool for some
time. We have a beautiful little boy who we both absolutely
adore and this is breaking my heart. Gayle will be moving
out soon and both a sense of relief and failure abound. I
hope this gives us both a bit of space and time to think. In
all this I look at by fabulous son and it reduces me to
tears each time. I am supposed to be a rufty tufty
firefighter yet this is breaking me. I thought it was the
faire sex that were soft. How on earth do you get through
this heartbreak and feeling of failure. Any ideas? |
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I hope you do not mind me replying, it sounds to me as if
you and your partner need to talk and maybe just maybe you
might salvage something especially for your little boy. You
are both hurting and sometimes having some distance helps in
realising what you both want. I have been seperated for
nearly a year with two children I am not going to say it
will be easy because it isnt, I needed space in my situation
and because he refused things didnt work out so I hope it
does for you your partner sounds confused so maybe you can
work it out, give it time I wish you luck. |
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